I am a visual person. Don’t tell me directions, draw me a map. Don’t tell me your name, show me your name tag.
Some people remember verbal information with extreme clarity. I cannot. But I do remember experiences like a vivid slideshow in my mind. Some of these images are worth remembering and some I wish I could forget.
One such visual memory has pestered me for many years (19 1/2 to be exact). It happened when a coworker organized a party to commemorate the finalization of his divorce. Instead of weeping, he decided to throw a bash and invite all his friends and coworkers. I don’t usually do well in social situations, but I decided to attend this party even though I am a ‘foot in the mouth’ kind of gal.
I am not kidding when I say this. I have once, and only once, felt socially superior at a party. This divorce party was that time.
I arrived late with a girlfriend of mine. I immediately hit the food table because then I would not have to converse with anyone. You know, my mouth is full, I can’t talk. It works well if you are only staying for a short time and on this night, I wouldn’t be staying long because it was the night before Thanksgiving and I had yet to purchase the turkey.
Anyway, I did feel superior this night because while I was standing in the kitchen surveying the assortment of appetizers, someone walked up to an acquaintance and depantsed her right before my eyes. Yes, that is correct. Yanked down her pants.
At that moment, I thought a number of things simultaneously. One, I didn’t realize anyone still wore big white cotton briefs. Two, I hoped I had a belt on and yes, I did. Three, I never imagined anyone thought depantsing was a good idea…ever. And four, I finally met someone who had less social skills than me. As the room erupted in screams, I turned to the perpetrator and said, “Might I suggest the bean dip?”
I was the calm in the eye of this storm. I had witnessed a truly, outrageously, embarrassing event that far out-shined any of my social gaffes, past or present. As the depantser exited the room, we all turned to console our friend and assure her we had not seen a thing. Ya, right.
What a hilarious story, PW. Simply hilarious.
And I think that everyone thinks they are personally bad at social situations. I pretty much got over that by offering up my most embarrassing moments at parties. Then everybody knows they are less bad at them than I am.
You are a woman after my own heart.
Oh. My word. How embarrassing for that poor girl!! Haha.
It was embarrassing but she has recovered and is going strong!
My husband is wondering why I am laughing at the computer screen,,,,I laughed right out loud. Calm, would not have been my reaction…
:)
Someone had to be calm, and it is usually not me, but I rose to the occasion!
Oh geez, I don’t even think we did that as teens. How cool that you managed to keep your head and not react badly. I would have probably yelled a profanity – aimed at the depantser.
The depantser was not my favorite person and luckily, I have not had to share space with her these many past years!
sophomoric hardly describes the de-pantser eh? good on you to be the eye of the storm.
*anna
I was happy to bring calmness to the encounter. Quite frankly I was too shocked to be anything but speechless.
Oh wow, LOL. 8O
I’ve often thought that people have different predominant senses. Mine is hearing, but I’m also visual (#2). :)
It is a memory that lingers….
Hanging around the food table is a great idea. I can’t imagine you not fitting in anywhere.
Thanks Karen! I do so enjoy the efforts of all cooks.
I don’t know what to say! It is so totally unacceptable! But what can you do? I think you handled yourself with poise and grace. Your poor friend!
My friend is a character that has taken the episode in stride, although we still don’t talk about it to this day ;)