I am extremely fortunate. I belong to a women’s group which meets once a month for a book study. As the youngest, I hardly say a word because I am awestruck by the wisdom, strength and humor of the elders in our group. Incredible women who are living inspiring lives and remain so vibrant and independent even as they face the challenges of aging.
Last night was our last meeting before a summer break. As I was sitting next to Jane, she started talking about her new phone. She purchased her phone the day before but was having trouble using it. Not to be deterred, she went to the Senior Center where a college student spent twenty minutes teaching her all about her new mobile phone. Evidently, the training did not stick because later that day her phone was ringing and she had no idea how to answer it. So last night, she dug into her purse and retrieved her state of the art smart phone which has way too many features for my friend Jane.
Jane: “Look at this. I don’t even know how to turn it on!”
Me: “Did you turn it off?”
Jane: “Turn it off? The screen is black. It’s off.”
Me: “Maybe it’s asleep.”
Me: “Ya, you need to wake it up.”
Jane, turning to her phone and saying: “Wake up!”
Me: “Jane, you need to push a button to wake it up or open up the keyboard.”
Jane: “I have a keyboard?!?”
Oh my. I smiled and we giggled and I grabbed her phone and showed her how to wake up her phone and unlock it. We practiced this a few times, locking and waking up her phone before we advanced to the next test.
Me: “I am going to use my phone to call you so that you can learn to answer your phone.”
Me: “What is your phone number?”
Jane: “Ummmm……. Give me a minute.”
Jane and I usually email, so I did not have her number programmed in my phone…unfortunately. Once she remembered her number, I typed the numbers and called her.
Jane: “Did you call me?”
Me: “Yes, but even though we are sitting right next to each other it takes a few seconds before your phone will ring.”
Jane: “It’s ringing! What do I do.”
Me: “You need to push the button in the lower left corner of your phone to answer.”
Jane pushed the button: “Hello. Hello. I can’t hear you.”
Me: “That is because you need to place the phone next to your ear.”
What a hoot and what a joy to help Jane who has taught me way more than I will ever be able to teach her.
Meanwhile, Barb was taking pictures of the group with her iPhone and said, “Great, now I have all these pictures on my phone but have no clue how to see them.”
Here we go again ;)